A great evolution is taking place within us all, an integration of soul into our physical form… which means crystalline DNA. Our physical bodies are changing to be able to hold this energy without cellular breakdown as in the masters before. We are learning new body strengthening and nutrition methods to support the strong energies. It will first be seen in the lightworkers, the ones using a daily meditation practice, yoga practice, the practicing artists, singers, musicians, the ones creating or expressing from their hearts in love. We will just naturally shift others by being ourselves and our truth, as this love pours through us. The feminine is re-awakening and taking her destined place beside the masculine to heal and balance it within you all. True feminine expression needs to be renewed, the women awoken - the wild, free ones that sang and danced in the forested moonlight, adorned in jewels and silks. Dreaming big dreams and creating them courageously!
Many woman have lost their inner shine, their goddess energy which has created an imbalance with the true expression of masculine energy. Women were born to be unique, sensual, beautiful, wild, free then worshiped and adored because of it the visionaries, dreamers and planners. Men the creators, the adorners, supporters, nourishers, stabilizers, providers and protectors. All carry masculine and feminine energies within, but the general overtone of living in society has created a parasite and contaminated our energy fields. It is the norm to hear woman call other woman derogatory names, gossip, compete, or attack each other. Starved, we vive for love and believe we will find it in a masculine rescuer of fairy tales. Saying we hate: being a girl, being so emotional and periods. Deny, shame and repress the feminine, any expression of: emotion, authenticity, intuition; dressing down, feed our bodies and minds toxins, we excuse behaviors or issues we shouldn’t; doubt our ideas, gifts, contributions beauty, bodies, dreams and each other. If we don’t look a certain way, we shame ourselves and refuse to adorn & celebrate our inherent beauty. Or if we do, we lose it in vanity, creating ‘celebrity status’ in which we create unsustainable body image and lifestyles, feeding off the attention to satisfy, the craving we have within. Abdicating our great inner power as we emulate media standards attempting to convince ourselves that being dreamless, dispassionate, do-it all - employees, wives, mothers, and girlfriends is enough. Denying and disrespecting the beauty of our bodies’ ability to create life for our species! And the power we have to change society just with our involvement in everything from parenting to politics. Trying to escape a ‘reality’ that has been pushed upon us, wishing we had more but not reaching for it, doubting our abilities to create it. Shoving down the cravings deep within us; for the true power of our goddess selves to be reclaimed. This repressed, mislabeled and misdirected energy will compensate to balance itself and can express itself in anger, jealousy, attack, gossiping, passive aggressive behaviour. To eradicate these behaviors we could paint, write, create (art, food, ideas, business, healing method…anything etc), educate yourself in something new, read. Alongside with expressing your femininity in ways that pleases you, wear dresses or just fabrics that feel nice, do make-up or style your hair - not for society but for you in ways that make you feel beautiful. To take dance, mediation, yoga, crafting, woodwork, cooking, art, or music classes. Singing, even humming is so powerful and can connect you to the heart as well as your own femininity in an instant! Volunteering is another extremely powerful way to connect to the sacred feminine, find a cause that speaks to you and run with it! And lastly a powerful way of reconnecting and soothing the sacred ache is taking a leadership role in your career, with a feminine forefront and touch; bring the humanity back into the corporations I say. Also Cynthia Occelli talks in dept about it in her incredible book “Resurrecting Venus” as well as in her podcast show, a definite must read/hear.
Sexual expression has become sensationalized and shrouded in vanity, religious shaming or just completely shut down within many healthy women; out of fear or extreme insecurities at not meeting up to society’s ‘standards’. Pornography has been a grave influence on this as it programs our subconscious minds, that woman don’t WANT to be respected; they don’t matter when it comes to sexual pleasure - unless it benefits and centres on the man’s; that they are disposable; or must have perfect bodies at all times to be ‘worthy’. Women are abdicating their god given power, in shame or allowing it to be taken from them through neglect, fear, self loathing, violent acts against woman or our children, media roles. We watch from this perspective, silently agreeing - as if it’s our fault and we deserve it somehow! Then add in sex trafficking of woman and children and there is quite a bit of messed up sexual energy (coding) floating around for us to pick up in our auric fields. I know we can't change everything overnight but when we don't speak up, or sit at home ignoring things that are happening to 'others' we repress our femininity and abdicate our power. It is our nature to help, speak up and care, in anyway we can. Also the vast range of either, negative sexual over expression: pornography, celebrities, social media, modelings standards, hollywood & music industry etc. Or under expression: men/women not being able to orgasim or are completely cutoff and uncomfortable with sex, sexual health issues, lack of hygenine, addictions, weight gain etc. All contributes to fertility, abandoned families, poverty, starvation, sexual confusion, religious shaming, or sexual traumas, divorce , heartache. Yet we wonder why, don’t connect the dots that denying our true expression, not fostering imagination or relying on our intuition, even viciously attacking femininity lead to an unhealthy world and society. We are built to enjoy our bodies, health bodies create healthy sex lives and the pleasure of a real orgasm or a great physical workout - will far outweigh that of sitting on the couch eating toxic junk food.
We want the quick answers and solutions to extreme distress. Seeking to explain everything through medicine or science. For more years then then we can even imagine amazing medical miracles & remedies have already been discovered and applied successfully. Most eastern medicinal practice include energy balance. Which means proper self expression or balanced mental, emotional and spiritual health. It is the norm to cut into a woman’s womb or sexual organs now days! Or even to just take them right out! Not to mention the atrocities of female genital mutilation which can not at all be compared to male circumcision, it is a unfathomable, barbaric act of torture against woman.
Many woman face birthing crisis’ and conception issues. The food we eat is contaminated, loaded with poisons and toxins that the food industry lies to us about, but this is a whole other blog. Know that there are herbs, cleanses and diets available. Specialists such as Chinese herbalists, acupuncturists, osteopaths, cupping, naturopaths, massage therapists, chiropractors or physiotherapists who specialize in pelvic health and holistic nutritionalists can help you create miracles changes in your health. Working to find balance between science’s incredible advances and ancient healing traditions of herbs, intuition and energy healing, one is not better then the other, rather all when used in whole will create the healthiest body experience. Combine this with a refocus on cooperation, unity and a better way for all, rather then profits. Fostering a new way of living and co-operate with each other, using the combined ideas and strengths of men and women. To love not only ourselves but each other, to honestly feel emotions and to create big, full and fun lives we love!
Another epidemic is our severe attachments to being ‘rescued’ which I call ‘Fairy Tale Syndrome’. Part of it comes for our mothers generations of long marriages ‘not matter what and media hype. With their push of romantic or fairy tale movies, mixed in with extreme hype of violence and the sentimentalization of ‘playing the field’. We are all choosing events or paths from the options available to us, that the media or those around us put forth, waiting for it to kick in for us to be happy. Underneath the surface we aren’t happy because we stopped creating and listening to our own hearts, our inner voice that would let us be a rebel and do things out of order or differently. By not creating a big, full life we LOVE (full of heart, creation and passion) we literally sit waiting, often in misery or numbed out, under the lie that we need a man to survive, thrive or be worthy for someone to ‘rescue’ us from our living situations. Now don’t take this wrong, no man bashing here, we WANT a healthy, happy, masculine man! Isn’t it better to attract one then having to make one? And truly healthy men are attracted to the healthiest women. So go on girl! Get to creating a big life that makes YOU HAPPY, foster your beauty - inside and out, help in your community, follow your heart to education and fall in love with your femininity!
“The world needs that special gift that only you have” ~ Marie Forleo
Woman are being called to wake up and live their passions and dreams. Doing so will ignite your anti-aging abilities, sexual powers as well as conception abilities and confidence. We are specifically called to gather around each other in support, admiration and genuine friendship; releasing judgement and finding similarities no matter the erroneous social status that society dictates to us. To gather our courage and really know we can each as individuals make a difference, then these contributions will merge, and as a group we can make a movement. Your unique views and touch is needed in the world, living out dreams and fostering ambitions will wake you up to the inner nourishment and fulfillment you have been searching for. This will help us to make the subtle shifts into leadership positions and communities that will improve and better our world. The time has come for all to wake up and listen to our inner voice as to what's best or right for us, and if there isn't a mold or spot in society that fits your dream and personality then create it! It is time to stop hurting each other or allowing others to suffer while we stand silently watching. We must wake up and speak out against violence of any kind. And stop blaming, ourselves, men or others and start acting, speaking and creating change. We can’t change what we don’t acknowledge. Anything done out of love, joy or genuine kindness will never fail, as this is the essence of creation, the very key of manifestation and will be supported. A Course in Miracles talks about this all the time - about love, compassion, kindness then need for less attack and more love to come in every thought, action and word. The battle we have created by believing in fear and fearing ourselves is over. Only love exists and when we believe this, love ourselves no matter what arises and give ourselves PERMISSION to feel this authentically - love is what naturally unfolds. In the coming months, much of what the course teaches, will manifest as love takes center stage in all our lives. For some of the most unconscious, this will mean deep chaos, challenges (as they are cleansed) and stresses of various levels.
Don’t know where to start? Here are some tips in my usual method of treating Body, Mind and Spirit.
Exercise and nutrition are of the utmost importance. Connect with your body again - talk to it, ask it to guide you and love your it, every inch of it! Dress it beautifully, wear nice fabrics, do your hair and make-up in the way that best suits your desires and accents your best features. Allow yourself to feel sexy, cared for, nourished and desirable again. Do it for yourself and to make yourself feel even more beautiful to you! You deserve it, and when you take the time to care for yourself in this way, you will have a new confidence and grace erupt out of you! And a welcomed side effect may just be that your romance ignites in your relationship again. You’re never too young or old.
Watch what you feed your mind. Is this book, show, movie, music etc. making me feel good about myself. Is it adding more value to my life and feeding my passions. Does it bring me closer to love, peace and joy? Now nothing is perfect that’s the beauty of being human, but I am suggesting here that if you predominate emotional state or thought reels are predominately angry, depressive, sad or abusive, you need to drown yourself in positivity. Affirmations, audiobooks, movies, books, articles, youtube videos. Reflect on the people you surround yourself with and question the choices that your making. Try the media cleanse below; this is an excellent way to get reconnected to how your really feel and to bring more authenticity into your experience. Is this the most loving option available to me right now? Are you watching TV shows comparing yourself and life to everyone on it? And how you don’t measure up? Keep a journal and do a 7 day media cleanse to connect with themselves & to see what their minds and emotions are like without all the external negative influences. It also gives them a chance to see how to use technology to their advantage. As at my Angels’ suggestions I also have my technology programmed and loaded with things that can instantly connect me to them & God in moments where I may be feeling weak or stressed. I have apps for affirmation & oracle cards; audiobooks, guided meditations, recorded prayers; positive quotes & pictures to remind me of my dreams.
-Pray, mediate, take baths, get out in nature, spend time with friends in creative ways, cook, take classes, exercise, read
-Abstain from mainstream TV’s, Movies, Music
-Listen to: documentaries on spirituality or positive topics; music that has no words or only loving words (classical, dance, ambient, new age, chanting, meditational, sonic program)
-Noting how you feel each day morning and evening in your journal
-No FB or social media.
I try to make every action dedicated to love, with the intent to open to God and my spirit’s wisdom and guidance. Therefore, before everything I do (or suggested above), I say a little prayer or intent, asking the action to be infused with love, that I am protected and guided by God’s grace. Whether it be exercise, eating, shopping for food, worrying, or a daydream. By asking God to be with you and enter everything you do you can shift the energy fields around you. Check out Matt Kahn’s video for setting intentions, as I believe this is a great way to connect spirit into every thing you do!
Honour your feelings, by truly taking the time to explore them. Practice extreme self care, beautifying and celebrating yourself in humble, graceful ways. Ask your heart what you want and what's best for you; then follow it's guidance. Practice self love and love others, give compliments from your heart freely and courageously. Connect with people, ask them their story and about their lives
Until next week…I love you, your Angels love you and you deserve to feel happy, to feel at peace and live your dreams! And don't forget to bring the light into everything you do today!
Om namah shivaya!
Now it’s your turn! What ways have you been denying your femininity? And how can you foster more grace and build a life that makes you smile from the inside out? I would love to hear from you!!! Please leave any comments below or on my Facebook page!
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As always, thank you for reading - Namaste,
Jayde Crystal Xo